Love Bootcamp
Grow wise in love.
Transform your relationship and your life.
Find out if your relationship is slowly wilting or steadily blooming, and if Love Bootcamp can help you.
We're experts in helping people like you develop relational skills so that they can lead their partnered lives to the fullest. If you feel like your relationship is not taking you to the next level, then take our fast quiz.
30 questions is all it takes to get started.
Most of us know love is the most important in life.
But relationships are challenging.
They often evoke our deepest wounds and struggles. Very few people were ever taught the skills to maintain a fulfilling relationship, let alone have it continually expand. This often means stuckness and stagnation at the least, and more often tremendous pain and financial cost. Perhaps worst of all, this pain has a way of being passed down through generations.
But it doesn’t have to be this way. With the right mindset and skillset, relationships can be a vehicle for healing, growth, creativity, and levels of joy and wellbeing that are otherwise impossible.
If you are ready to shift your relationship from stagnation to pure creativity, you need to cultivate 10 major relational skillsets:
Body & Brain
You need to learn to recognize and influence your nervous system state so you can feel safe, happy, and connected with your partner.
In this module you will:
Learn the essential fundamentals of the nervous system.
Learn how to recognize and influence your own nervous system state, including through exercises you can do on your own.
Learn how to recognize and influence your partners nervous system state, including practical partnered exercises you can do together.
Mind & Heart
You need to build the muscles of an open mind and a warm heart. Learn time-tested, evidence based practices to:
Make your mind spacious, brilliant, agile, and wise.
Make your heart smile radiantly at life.
Become a kung fu master of joy and kindness.
Emotions & Communication
You need to become emotionally intelligent and great at communicating.
Build emotional intelligence, become emotionally balanced, and master responding rather than reacting.
Learn how to communicate your emotions in a way that evolves your relationship, increases your intimacy, and gets you more of what you want.
Become experts at navigating conflict. Turn conflict into creativity, healing, and transformation.
Touch & Sex
Make the most of being embodied with a partner:
Lear the art of loving, nonsexual touch, including: supportive touch, affectionate touch, and partner massage.
Build and sustain attraction and excitement.
Explore new realms of sexual connection, fulfillment, and play.
Transformation & Creativity
Discover the deepest secrets for how to break through stuck-ness, staleness, and conflict and live a more fun, free, and fulfilling life with your partner.
Learn the most profound and useful insights from psychoanalysis in a simple, practical way.
Break out of the cycle of repetitive, intergenerational and cultural patterns of conflict that play out in your relationship.
Break through to a new, free, and happy life.
What’s Included
Process Group
The process group is the heart of the Love Bootcamp. This is where you will have the opportunity to learn-by-doing with a group of other couples and an expert facilitator. These weekly meetings are not about learning new theories, techniques, or practices, but about having direct support from ten other people to understand and grow yourself, your relationship, your emotions, your communication, your intimacy, and your life.
eLearning Portal
Learn the foundational and essential theory and practices to develop the 10 major relational skillsets through our self-paced on demand video library.
Individual & Couple Sessions
Get 1:1 (individual) or 1:2 (couples) support from an expert therapist to help you work through sticking points in your learning, integration, relationship, and life.
Monthly Q&A
Join this monthly live webinar to ask questions about theory and practice or get additional support from our experts.
Peer Learning Sessions
Couples will be paired together to meet and support each other in working with the material. This is a great way to deepen your learning and integration and make lifelong friends.
Lifetime Access & Continuity
You will get lifetime access to the materials for this course and the community discussion boards. You will get new material for the course as it is released. You and your group will also be eligible to participate in a continuity group and group retreats if you decide you want to continue to deepen your relationships together. Many lifelong friendships await.
Who’s It For?
Couples
You and your partner are looking for a way to have the best possible relationship together, on all levels. You:
Have a great relationship and want to see how much better it can still get.
Feel stuck or stagnant in some areas and want to breakthrough to vital, new depths.
Are encountering challenges that you want to learn how to overcome.
Want to build lifetime friendships and community for support and fun.
Individuals
Although Love Bootcamp was originally designed for couples, we now have a separate group for individuals. You:
Want to learn the skills to be more effectively loving in all of your relationships (not just a partnership).
Want to learn the skills for a potential future relationship.
Want to build lifetime friendships and community for support and fun.
“Our journey has improved our partnership. Initially, our connection felt weak, marked by unspoken tensions and different priorities. With focused effort, we recognized key areas to address. Our sessions created a safe space for open communication, allowing us to express our feelings more clearly and understand each other better. As we grew individually, we learned to appreciate one another. Our progress has strengthened our bond, turning it into a positive collaboration. We now view our differences as strengths, transforming conflicts into opportunities for connection. We value this experience, as it has enhanced our relationship and deepened our respect for communication. Together, we are building a future of strength and understanding.” -Confidential
“Love Bootcamp has greatly improved our relationship! When we started, we felt more like roommates than partners, always misunderstanding each other. With expert guidance, we learned to communicate honestly and identified the sources of our conflicts. Each session brought us closer, restoring the intimacy we thought we had lost. Now, we feel like loving partners again, valuing each other's uniqueness. We are grateful for this journey, which has transformed our relationship and turned challenges into valuable opportunities for growth and connection!” -Confidential